Sense of Community

When you live in a bigger city or even the sprawling outskirts of one, it is hard to capture the essence of teaching children the responsibility of helping others in and around you. Of course, leading my example and using teachable moments really DOES help. 

I tend to get frustrated with the older siblings because they are so disconnected in every way regarding caring for their younger siblings. The oldest two do not live here and visit twice a month. Of course, this is the same schedule that has been happening for just over 6 years....yeah, that hasn't impacted them at all. They love their siblings and love to play with them or even occasionally change a diaper. The reality of their every day life is missing the aspect to help be responsible for someone else in a positive way rather than just telling!  So, it really is a challenge as it is not their lifestyle. They are both however very giving children in other aspects and enjoy buying gifts for the younger siblings.  (The art of Gift giving is a different blog!)

Madisen on the other hand has loved being a big sister from the moment she realized she was getting a little baby. She is a perfect small mommy (most of the time).  Maternal instincts ARE DIFFERENT than community responsibility. That's another blog if you disagree!! We have been able to really teach her about helping take care of ANYONE that needs help. Of course, stranger safety in our house means that unless mommy or daddy says, you can't help or talk to anyone. She dutifully asks for permission to even talk to other small people on the playground! So precious yet so compassionate. 

She can meet you once, and you are good for her ~ she won't remember your name, since she obviously got that trait from both Asa & I. However, she will figure out a way to help you!! She loves Jesus and I know

This is a friends small one who I find utterly contagious~ Madisen offered to walk with her since she kept running away from the place we were suppose to stand!

I always want to allow small people the opportunity to serve one another and really care about others.  This one, we got right!!